Dating psychology games

20 Apr

In the beginning phase of a relationship, the guy wants you to like him and wants to know that you do.

Everyone wants to be liked and if there’s any potential to the relationship whatsoever, the guy wants to know that you like him. So when he’s texting you sweet things, saying all that mushy stuff and being really attentive, there is an element of wanting to hook you in and see where he stands with you.

So as soon as the woman declares that she really likes him, she assumes it means that they’re headed towards a relationship.

I’ve described this kind of thing as people wearing a pretty “mask” at the beginning of a relationship and how, if you know about this, you’ll make sure to see the person behind the mask (and not mistake their pretty “mask” as who they actually are).

When both of you are convinced that you like each other, you can both “drop the mask” and start acting like yourself, fully.

MORE: The Top 3 Reasons Why Men Pull Away If you say something like, “Really? ” and get all excited, then he knows you’re really into him.

If not, he will probably dial it back on his part because he doesn’t think you’re all that into him…